Bio: Where do I start? I was a banker the first 3 years out of school, then a bartender for the next 20 years. I moved back to the country in 1996; tired of bar scene, friends until your money ran out, good judge of people though, liars & theives are one in the same, if this is you, please don't reply. I'll figure you out believe me! Just want a good person at heart and feelings and a nice toned body would be nice, but not required. I have had a hard way to go with my family all my life, most strangers really like me, strait or gay. I am a very trusting person; could explain why I've been alone for the last 15 years. Non drinker, do not smoke tobacco products, spiritual, love to travel and anything to get away from stress. I am the youngest babe of 5 and the happiest(for now). Live by my 87 yr old Mother whom is very eductated to the gay life style. Siblings don't like it and they convinced my Mother to leave me basically out of her will, but she will probably live to be at least 100!(I hope) I can't wait that long to start living my life. My father died when I was 12 at 52 and my oldest brother died at 43. I hate to think that this is it, I've wasted so much time. However I still have my dark hair and don't feel 53, more like 39. I'm humerous and always have a smile on my face though it is fake sometimes. I've missed alot...loving someone special and visversa.