Bio: This stuff is so awkward and new to me that I'm struggling with writing anything in my profile as I attempt to keep looking for a friend that might lead to more it just has to be organic and not contrived and fake. I haven’t dated since 1983 when I married as a hetero male and now I’m not sure that I know how to even talk to someone that I think I could be interested in. I’m convinced that me being gay is not now and will never be the defining label that I will or will allow to be placed upon me. My object of desire is personal and only one dimensions of the total me.