Bio: I'm 46,One year out from having the lap-band procedure and 85lbs down so far and a bunch to go.I love to sing,dance and play music,I'm dedicated to old time country\bluegrass music and I also love to ride,garden and cook.I collect Aunt jemima and black memorabilia and cookbooks,I'm getting close to 1000 of them.I live out in the boondocks and love the privacy that brings,but enjoy going to town for a weekend for gay fun.It get kinda lonesome out here in the sticks,but you just can't step out on the deck naked in town.I'm very easy going and love to laugh,Have a great kinda naughty sense of humor and try to see the good in everyone,highly emotional and a raving democrat.I love to help people in lots of ways and have tons of friends gay and straight,Family is very important to me and I take care of 3 of my younger nephews 3-4 days a week and they keep me busy and smiling.