Bio: Sexy, Silly, Serious, Sensual, Sassy and Strong Willed... I am the real thing... I'm not using someone else's picture. I'm honest to a fault. I'm not some wishy-washy chick that doesn't know what she wants out of life when it comes to a relationship. Believe me, I have taken my trips to the smorgasboard and have picked out my favorites. I know exactly what I want and that's what is going in here! I was shown the door to the "alternatives" when I was 31. I opened it and never looked back. I have lived as a lifestyle Domme, have done phone domination and even professional domination (not a dominatrix). I have lived with polyamory and have known I was bisexual since I was 13. I have been deeply involved with LGBT rights and even ran a support group for alternative lifestyles. I am still passionate about all of those things and active in supporting them. But I have learned who I am, and what I want. Sometimes it's hard to follow your counselors advice, especially when it's yourself! So through my own trial and error this is what I've found out: I'm not interested in "NSA". Been there, done that... It's just not for me anymore. I'm much more into what can happen between 2 people and how intimately you can get to know each other. I have always been a curvy girl... never a stick. I am a BBW aka Plus Size (some people like to say fat or phat or thick) So if you are looking for a small girl... it's not happening here. I'm 47 with the mindset of a 37 yr old, a lifetime of experience to set me apart from the rest and the strength to get through this crazy life. I have a crazy sense of humor that ranges from dry and sarcastic to completely silly. If I didn't have my sense of humor I wouldn't be around still!