Bio: Mostly here for chat, sometimes more, married, black, straight or latino men, step to the front! 40 - how'd that happen? discreet, professional, educated, movie lover. Work out @ golds & urban active. If I email you, be an adult & at least respond - you know who you are! Pet peeves: 'average' body = 30lbs overweight, guys *40 only talking to *30 & thinking they're not an ass, 30yos calling them bois, guys demanding face pics but have none themselves, guys once 5 yrs older than me are now 5 yrs younger, CB guys who don't have a car & ask to be driven everywhere, guys "very new to the site" after 2 years, & the thought "super older" is 35