Bio: I'll start by saying that writing these things is never enjoyable! I'd class myself as your normal type of lad. I'm not 'camp as christmas' but neither macho macho, im just a lad. I've got a good head on my shoulders and I'm mature with it. Although friends and family call me a big , hey ho! I'm not a leader, nor am I a follower. I do what I want when i want, a free spirit if you like. I think i've got a good attitude, im easy going, friendly and welcoming. You make an effort so will I. Lifes about give and take. I currently live in Basildon. Ive purchased a house with a mate as it was the only option of getting onto the property ladder. So as you can imagine funds for myself are rather low. Unfortunately a carers wage doesn't give you the high life. I've been working in care for about 5 years. Now employed at basildon hospital. I'm not a huge drinker, well not anymore, ive figured there is more to life than getting fucked up on drink and drugs every weekend. But dont get me wrong, im far from t-total. I do enjoy having a party at home or going clubbing now and then, i just know my limits. As far as doing anything, eg going places, joining clubs ect i'm pretty easy going, ill give anything a try.I love my films, got an xbox360, wii, and ds, love a good shoot em up. I've quite a varied taste in music.I'm into the whole clairvoyance thing. Im training at the moment.I also enjoy gardening, and no im not old before my time, i find it somewhat theraputic, gives me time to think things over or switch off. I now have two very special gardens within my own. These are for my nan and mum who passed 2009, so keeping them looked after is important to me. I also like playing darts and bowling. Swimming. As cash it tight at the moment ive been camping down on the south coast for holidays and have really enjoyed it. I love walks along the beach and the views are fantastic. I'll leave it at that for now, anything else you want to know fell free to ask. Speak to you soon. Dave