Bio: Whether fate exists or not you have to earn the rewards you seek. It takes effort, patience, and in many situations....being subtle to push things in the direction you desire. Doing nothing and just waiting.....is doing exactly that....NOTHING!!! Effort and patience can work together beautifully.......but patience without effort.....will bring you nothing unless you just get lucky.....and effort without patience is a good way to push someone away....or something away. USE THE TOOLS! The worse thing that could be done is to walk away without doing anything/ any effort. I do agree that what is meant to be will be-but-one's effort toward her choices and decisions will determine what will happen. Nothing will happen on it's own!!! If you want her-show it. If you love her-express it. If she hurt you-tell her. Everyone lives for today instead of plans for tomorrow so before you know it she passes by and you wonder what could of been. You start questioning yourself and saying what if, if i had, etc..... Don't let the woman you love or someone you care about pass through your life because of your own pride. If you don't give the effort you will never know what love is because it was never worth the risk. Love is worth the risk. I would of rather loved her and got hurt then not at all. Appreciate what you have and do what you can to keep it cause tomorrow is not promised. Life is not worth being unhappy or sad. If you can be with the woman you love-do it. What more is life worth living for-to love and be loved. They say time makes the heart grow fonder. I do not totally agree with that. All situations and everyone is different. I think that is true but I also think it's true that time and separation changes feelings. Being in a relationship is easy-keeping it is hard. Everyday is a challenge and keeping your love alive is something we all fight for everyday. We must figure out what we really want and if we are willing to do what it takes. If you have dreams - live by them.