Bio: I am a ethnic minority , in the closet and hence no profile pic. My family and religion won't understand I also know people on here so gladly send pic for genuine interest shown. i require some understanding and alot of people i know are homophobic. I am happy go lucky guy that charismatic exciteable bubbly friendly and have something to say and make people laugh. I am looking to get laid but more so after dinner dates and getting to know people than jumping in the sack. The very few experiences I have had have not been good. will only out myself for the right guy, i wear my heart on my sleeve see good in people and believe in honesty and treat people how I expect to be treated. I had a part time boyfriend for ten years but he moved continents O:( and have had limited partners and limited sexual horizons and safe sex all the way really turned on by kissing and cuddles more than full on sex .but ready to open my wild side have some fun and have make some gay friends been in the closet for so long. Guys I fancy are actors Paul walker, Hayden Christiansen, Ryan Phillipe and Richard Vincent. I love the gym to bits and do various classes 5 times a week and It taken 10 years off my life getting fit. power to the power plate as well I call it the human BBQ LOL and no need to buy hair gel he he ! I reply to all my messages and sad so many people don't reply and even after pics swapped if no interest would rather be told. Looking for friends chat maybe sex maybe BF and if not possible a regular sex buddy not interested in multiple partners and must be discreet and trusting and safe. I am quite geeky but more chilled out of late and love my life and work. My motto in life is quitting is out of the question, and wanna find great vegetarian food in michelin starred resturants. Also would like to meet guys that are financially solvent and not in debt or depressed such a long story of my past!