Bio: I am shy, but sincere. Recently lost my partner of 20 years due to a home invasion in Mexico. Am new to being single again. Not sure what I'm looking for. I am self conscious of my looks due too the severity of the beating we both took. I am an older man and have had a great life, but am looking for someone to care about. I don't like sleeping alone as this is first time since I was 19. I love sex, but is not first desire when I meet someone. I prefer to make love with a guy I care about. Have had wild sex and enjoyed it, but kissing and cuddling and intimacy such as washing my lovers back etc. is wonderfull. Being older, I have old fashioned ideas and I realize I am not a turn on, but get to know me and perhaps you will see beyond the surface.