Bio: I'm looking for enjoyable sex that is respectful, reciprocal, and not "slam bam." I'm short and husky, but lovable. I like cuddling, showers, and sleeping together. I'm D & D free & HIV neg. I love oral give and take, 69, and willing to try anal play, but it must be safe . I like conversation and knowing the direction things are going, in the moment or in the relationship: no queens, S & M, or games. I'm looking for dates, which might include chancing upon a partner.