Bio: i'm SOOOOOO out of the bar scene. i'm not possessive or jealous. i totally enjoy meeting people and can hold good conversations, and i always speak my mind even when it's not necessarily the best thing to do, so don't take offense. it's just the NYer in me. i am sexually confident,and i'm not a barbie doll yet not a cow either. i'm comfortable with who i am and know what i want and how to get it. saps need not apply here! i will ALWAYS respond to emails. sometimes it just takes me a couple of days. patience is a virtue. and i do the emails thing back and forth one or two times. then i like to go directly to the phone and to meeting. depends on where we go from the first phone call.