Bio: I keep rewriting this in hopes of getting it to be better (or perhaps I'm just a perfectionist?) What I know I am is: retired, a bookworm, a good cook and gardener, a lover of movies and music, partial to dogs, humorous, and mostly masculine. If you are one of those sad people afraid of baggage, honey just move along. Life is a "trip," everyone has baggage. Also, if you are straight-acting, well goody for you, but there's no Oscar for that. If you don't want to get involved with someone who has family then we're not a match. Family is very important to me and the right guy who comes along will want to join it. I'm someone who who falls in love slowly, but when it happens it's forever. Total bottom who loves pleasing bears/cubs/chasers. But just one will do! Looking for chat friends too. Equal opportuity bttm here: all races/ethnicities welcome. Peace and happiness to you on life's trip. "On some of my darkest days, Lucifer is the one who comes and gives me ice cream. -- Tori Amos "Be yourself. Everyone else is taken." -- Oscar Wilde