Bio: “Come, come, whoever you are, Wanderer, idolater, worshiper of fire, Come even though you have broken your vows a thousand times, Come, and come yet again. Ours is not a caravan of despair.†- Rumi I'm an old bear who's tired of all the ways gay guys hurt one another and themselves. I'm looking for buddies who are doing their heart-work and want support for their visions of a meaningful life. I tend to be a loner, and I'm severely undertouched; I like sex a lot but affection is central to it.